The following is the text of my Principal’s Address to the High School Graduates of 2014.

My mother was the type of person who was cautious about throwing an item away, always thinking that someone might have a use for it someday. So when rummaging through a box of papers some time back, I was not surprised to come across something that I had thought was thrown out long ago.  It was a hand written copy the first graduation speech I ever delivered.  What I mean is that this was the speech I wrote and gave at my own high school graduation.  A speech that I delivered as a very nervous seventeen year old to a crowd much like this one.

I took it out of the dusty brown envelope, sat cross legged on the floor and began to read the words I had written many years ago.  After silently going over nearly all of the speech, I put it down and thought:  how embarrassing!

I could see that I attempted to be witty, and I guess I wrote the best speech I was capable of at that point in my life. Really, I was just glad that the speech was 37 years in the past and delivered in the days before anyone owned a video camera, so I could be certain that no one had any record or memory of those awkward words.

But the last paragraph of that speech was different.  Maybe I felt it would be appropriate for me to end on a serious note.  And as I reflected upon the closing paragraph, I realized that what I wrote then still holds true today.  In fact, it is highly appropriate to share it with you right now, since, I wrote it on the occasion of a high school graduation and I wrote it when I was as old as the people up on this stage today.  Here is what it said:

“Remember that we owe a lot to the people that are with us here today, for they have influenced us, and helped us to become who and what we are.  In a lot of ways, a school is a little world in itself, a world where we learn how to solve problems and adjust to different situations.  Sometimes we mess up, but that is kind of what school is for too.  And when we run into obstacles, we have people around us to help show us the way.”

I did not realize it at the time, but I know now that what I was referring to was a sense of community.  The importance of community is an enduring reality.  The strength that comes from a caring supportive community is as powerful now as it was then.

I look around this room and I see proud parents, grandparents, relatives and friends. I see teachers, educational assistants, secretaries, bus drivers and custodians. You are here because you care and because you want to share in this wonderful community celebration.  You are here, because you are the community.  And while we are here to celebrate the graduation of these students, we also celebrate your contribution in making this happen.

So on behalf of the person you see standing here before you as well as on behalf of my seventeen year old self who is speaking to you from across the years, I wish all the best to these young people, and extend my gratitude to all of you who have provided the support and encouragement that makes their high school graduation a reality.